I was allowed to observe the 3 and 4 year old class at my daughter’s school. I thought it was so interesting to see these little people interacting with each other. Some of them were best friends one minute, mad at each other the next and then hugging when it was time to say good bye. At one point one little girl came crying to the teacher “Maddie wants me to be in a friendship with her and I don’t want to be inside a friendship!”. The teacher smiled and asked the little girl if she knew what a friendship was. The little girl replied “no”. The teacher explained that being in a friendship simply meant that you are friends with that person. At that the little girl laughed and said “I do want Maddie to be my friend”. It was so funny how the children did not really understand what they were saying and must have heard it from adults at some point. This might be an overly simple example of communication but the teacher did a good job in explaining friendship and teaching the children that it was something good that they were already involved in. The child thought that a friendship was something bad or scary because she did not understand and now she is happy and has an understanding of another level of personal relationships. I believe the child’s self-worth was improved as she realized that the other child just wanted to be her friend.
I have always loved communication with children. Yes, sometimes it can be frustrating when you can’t seem to get them to understand a certain concept, but the honesty in which they communicate is precious. It brings humor into our lives when we get to see how they interpret the world around them and try to make meaning of what they see and hear. I think that for myself to be a better communicator I need to work on ways to explain meaning to children at the level they can understand and make sense of.
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Established Contact with My German Childhood Professional
My contact actually changed from Tonya Schmidt to Thomas Volz. He studied in New York and Turkey. He taught school in Turkey and in Boveria at the Abuture, which they call the place of higher learning durin ghte first years. He also taught Turkish students to speak English for 4 years. He has 3 boys of his own that are 11, 12 and 15 years old. Whe I asked him to tell me about povery in Germany that he might have experienced and how it affects children, this is what he wrote to me:
"In Germany the federal social security system is (still) so comprehensive that you hardly notice any differences between rich and poor students in class. As (still) most of our schools end at 1pm, lunch, nutrition and healthcare is predominantly considered a private matter. People are very touchy about the government interfering in these questions. So it is left to health care providers to inform and teach the public on a voluntary basis. Of Course schools support this, but not as an integral part of the basic curriculum. The stress is on academic subjects".
"However, times are changing. More and more schools exand their lessons into the afternoon and the schools provide lunch. This is generally a cheap alternative to private lunch served at home. Here the schools monitor ingediences and nutrition very closely because many parents are very aware of this topic"
"The gap between rich and poor is, however, quite obvious on a higher academic level. Children that are academically supported at home are more likely to proceed to higher education and achieve better results on the long run. This more a question of how educated the parents/families are. But as education and income are unextricably entwined the link between academic achievement and income is a sad (German) fact"
"In Germany the federal social security system is (still) so comprehensive that you hardly notice any differences between rich and poor students in class. As (still) most of our schools end at 1pm, lunch, nutrition and healthcare is predominantly considered a private matter. People are very touchy about the government interfering in these questions. So it is left to health care providers to inform and teach the public on a voluntary basis. Of Course schools support this, but not as an integral part of the basic curriculum. The stress is on academic subjects".
"However, times are changing. More and more schools exand their lessons into the afternoon and the schools provide lunch. This is generally a cheap alternative to private lunch served at home. Here the schools monitor ingediences and nutrition very closely because many parents are very aware of this topic"
"The gap between rich and poor is, however, quite obvious on a higher academic level. Children that are academically supported at home are more likely to proceed to higher education and achieve better results on the long run. This more a question of how educated the parents/families are. But as education and income are unextricably entwined the link between academic achievement and income is a sad (German) fact"
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